Shou Susi Ban House

Shou Sugi Ban House resides behind that elusive gate in Water Mill, directly east of the Parrish Art Museum. Whether you’re a local or weekender, if you’ve traveled east on Route 27 you’ve certainly noticed the entrance way but, very likely, have never actually peeked inside.

As the gates slowly parted, I arrived at the large Buddha statue dead center of the property for my private tour with Jodie Webber, creative director. Open year-round with 13 rooms, the property consists of a tea tasting and healing arts barn including sound experiences, fitness studio with garage-style doors, hydrotherapy pools, spa rooms, fire circles, open-concept kitchen — the list goes on. All for either half-day experiences, full-day experiences, or a choice of three-, five-, or seven-day retreat options.

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The concept is simple, literally. Minimal aesthetic, minimal waste, maximum benefits. As I explored the property I began to feel at peace with myself amid the chaos from the outside world. It was as though the gates literally secreted me from the stress of typical summer daze as I escaped to Japanese-inspired tranquility.

While the property is not LEED certified, by choice, it uses solar panels, geothermal wells, and considers the environment in each detail. I partook in a tea tasting, including the signature tea with beach roses. The tea bar and shelves were repurposed floor boards from the preexisting barn. Apparently, I was surrounded by wood, rocks, and replanted trees that were simply moved around. Sustainability and nourishment maintains priority down to the zero-waste culinary program.

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The name itself, Shou Sugi Ban, is derived from the Japanese tradition of combining fire and water to make wood more durable. Founder and “master architect” Amy Cherry-Abitbol, a Water Mill resident, purchased the property in 2014 and in the spring of 2015 a fire broke out on the property. In keeping things full circle, and part of the process of live and learn, the name came about as a sort of tribute to Mother Nature’s elements.

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As I spoke with Webber, I played with the copper pyramid and gongs. The vibrations went from my fingertips to my core, and that’s when Webber sat me in a vibroacoustic bed. The bed itself is a table with frequency pulsing from feet to head, a complete sound experience with headphones on for nearly 45 minutes. A truly unique event that had my entire body shaking, as though to rid all the negative energy pent up inside of me.

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It’s difficult to do Shou Sugi Ban House justice in a single column. It’s the ideal location for those looking to escape for a few hours or a few days. This may come off like a tourist destination, for those arriving on the East End, but it’s actually a place of serenity for the entire community. The impeccable attention to minimalistic detail throughout the property alleviates any distraction, coinciding with the holistic wellness practices. The focus on sound arts and a communal atmosphere proves to be different than any other place nearby. Once the gates close behind you, and you enter with an open heart and open mind, it’s both a mental and physical escape from the world not so far away.

Learn more and book an escape at www.shousugibanhouse.com.

This article first appeared in The Independent Newspaper. Read more about #EverythingEastEnd here

Interior Design Our Lives

How many interior designers, architects, and so forth are there? The answer is: a lot. And without any scientific or psychological proof, or input from the professionals, I’ve concluded, based on my own personal experience, that the décor of a room has a direct effect on overall well-being.

I’ve recently moved and, for the first time ever, am completely designing my bedroom to fit my tastes. The reasons this was never done in the past is an entirely other column in itself (best saved for the mental health issue). Pinterest has been a huge help, as has walking into numerous home stores, combined with a few online quizzes of “What’s your decorating style?”

It turns out, my style falls under the banner of “eclectic farmhouse.” I blame Chip & Joanna Gaines’s “Fixer Upper.” Neutral tones, wooden accents, plants everywhere, clean lines with modern finishes, and the occasional travel trinket.

Without any professional help, combined with my obsessive need to only buy things I can touch or see in person, the process has been exhausting. This is only a single room. How do people decorate entire houses? But each piece I end up adding to my mini sanctuary sparks joy (thank you, Marie Kondo).

In my previous rooms I felt like a guest overstaying my welcome, sometimes by years. Many times, I’d allow mess to accumulate, feel anxious upon entering, lose sleep, wake up with a chip on my shoulder. As my room now comes together, I’m finding the opposite to be true. I can’t wait to open the curtains with the sun rising, and each inch of the space is utilized for function. It feels like me. Through this, I’ve started meditating more and become more productive.

The way we walk into a spa, a high-end fitness studio, or even that luxury hotel room, we should want to walk into the doors of our own living spaces. My room feels like a mini getaway and yet has a sense of self at the same time. Artwork from global artists met through my travels, a desk for writing, a chair by the window to sink in and drown out the world, a mirror to add depth to the space . . . it all takes me away from the outside world and creates a safe space, one I’ve created. That adds peace, clarity, motivation. It adds a sense of self.

 

This article first appeared in The Independent Newspaper. Read more about #EverythingEastEnd here

A Larry Party

This article first appeared in The Independent Newspaper 

 

Lawrence Scott Gottesman established Lawrence Scott Events in 1989 and has been transforming the mundane into the magical ever since. “A Larry Party” is known for mixing formal and relaxing elements, to create the ultimate feeling of a true escape. When working with a client, Gottesman retains a “your taste, my style” philosophy. From events at Parrish Art Museum to people’s private homes, everything is done in-house — food, florals, décor, and more — for a seamless experience, he said.

What unique elements are considered when planning a Hamptons event?
The Hamptons of course has its famous and beautiful beaches, which is a popular location for summer fetes. In the winter though, parties tend to get gimmicky. I recently produced a Studio 54 themed party, complete with a Disco is Dead “graveyard” in the garden, featuring “fallen” disco balls.

How long does it take to plan an event?
It could be two weeks or two years. It is highly individual, depending on the event itself and the persons involved. I would say usually though, it is around one to two years of planning for large scale events.

What’s the most common request?
Clients often ask me whether the event is going to be different and original. Every time I get asked this question, the answer is of course “yes!” There is a reason why our mantra is “From the ridiculous to the sublime.”

What are some uniquely outlandish touches?
I have always believed that “more is more” and one of my signature elements is my trough overfilled with delicacies including meats, cheeses, and fruits. It adds to the overall visual impact and gives the host or hostess playful possibilities in displaying his or her gourmet food offerings.

Another original idea is our signature invasions, which are all about perfect timing coupled with exacting choreography. An adrenaline pop at just the right moment, the invasion gives the party life, and smiles and unforgettable memories.

What’s a food choice that fits most situations?
People like things from their childhoods and comfort food is a favorite. Serve mini burgers on silver platters. Classic candy is also a favorite. There are also a lot of expectations outside of the food itself when it comes to events. People don’t want to sit around a table at an event. They want to move around and perhaps have a few hors d’oeuvres here and there, [and] only to reappear at the table for dessert. Signature Larry Party desserts includes oversized yodels, chocolate covered Twinkies, and tons of candy.

What are some trends that are fading out?
There tends to not be a lot of sitting down anymore. People don’t want to sit through seven dishes, so events tend to feature passed hors d’oeuvres and/or smaller dishes served “buffet style” as not to tie people down to a table all night. This also enhances the social aspect, with more intermingling and not limiting conversations to the person next to you at the table.

What are trends for 2018?
Anything goes. Events are getting more adventurous, with outrageous themes. This tends to be the trend especially when the economy is better, such as right now. As for food, it is becoming less traditional. People love comfort food gone gourmet.

As Spring approaches, what are you most looking forward To?
I am looking forward to the weather getting warmer and with that, the possibilities of hosting outdoor events and parties. The outdoors offers endless opportunities to mix things up, such as trees filled with crystal chandeliers. And since you are already surrounded by flowers, use greenery or lamps as centerpieces. It doesn’t have to be flowers.

Visit their website or follow @LawrenceScottEvents for more information.

 

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2018 Bridal Trends: Ask The Experts

This article first appeared in the February 7, 2018 issue of The Independent Newspaper

 

Are you heading down the aisle with your true love this year? I asked bridal experts what the trends are for 2018, from dresses to décor.

In dresses, bridal designers are trading old traditions for something new, according to bridal industry experts Brides and The Knot, which reported from the Fall 2018 Bridal Fashion Week. Some highlights: capes or “capelets” are in, as are pale blue, big bows, higher necklines, and shorter hemlines.

In a bridal wardrobe twist, black is the new white, with designers such as Reem Acra, Kelly Faetanini and Vera Wang showcasing black detail to all black in their dresses. For bridesmaids, the one-color-fits all is passé say experts, and parties are steering more towards mix and match.

For the groom, midnight blue is the new black for tuxedos.

Blue is also showing up in bridal floral arrangements as well, said Laura Petrocelli, CEO of Couture Concepts Inc., a luxury event planning and design company. “I love the Dusty Blue trend; [it gives] the perfect touch of color to a classic all white or blush palette. Couples are not afraid to use and mix multiple bold colors anymore,” she said. Greenery has become the base for many floral arrangements, and organic-style low and lush centerpieces are popular for the reception table, Petrocelli added.

As far as venues are concerned, her clients are moving away from the traditional banquet hall style and craving the flexibility of an indoor/outdoor space. “A tented wedding on an estate on the water gives you the best of both worlds,” she said. “Lucky for us, these types of venues exist right here on the North Fork and in the Hamptons.” Many couples are also saying their vows outside of a church, and writing their own vows, she said.

Jason Bencivenga, owner of Decco and Party Up Productions Inc. a full-service production and DJ company said for wedding receptions, “Rustic is going strong but our brides seem to be adding glam into that.” While he said barns remain on trend, industrial spaces are growing in popularity: “It’s shabby chic.”

Wedding couples today are largely of the Millennial generation, and the bride of 2018 is Instagram and Pinterest oriented when it comes to describing her vision for her wedding, say experts. This love for social media can also be incorporated in other ways. For example, Party Up’s Vogue Booth allows clients to set up an Instagram booth.

For some couples, the best part comes when the heels are off and the tuxedos are on the hanger: the honeymoon. The average budget for the great escape is $8000 to $10,000 said Laura Hanaford, president and CEO of The Trip Trotter, a travel agency part of Tzell Travel Group. However, many couples aren’t setting out on the honeymoon directly after the wedding.

“I’m working with more and more couples who are prolonging their honeymoon for work or financial reasons, or to take advantage of better weather in the destination that they’d like to travel to. Couples feel like they are able to take more time off for their honeymoon than a usual trip and want to take advantage of that,” she said.

The top destination for 2018 for couples booking with The Trip Trotter? Asia. She is already booking clients primarily to Thailand and Bali, Hanaford revealed.

Info and links:

Couture Concepts: 631-239-5142

Party Up Productions: 631-988-9579

The Trip Trotter: thetriptrotter@tzell.com

 

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Dinner at Tiffany’s

“The quietness and the proud look of it; nothing very bad could happen to you there. If I could find a real-life place that’d make me feel like Tiffany’s, then – then I’d buy some furniture and give the cat a name!” Holly Golightly, Breakfast at Tiffany’s. 

 

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Today, Audrey Hepburn would walk into an unexpected actuality at Tiffany & Co.. The freshly renovated Home & Accessories department wow’s with a new signature touch- The Blue Box Cafe. A fourth floor dining experience where literary fanatics and movie buffs of the Truman Capote classic can now have breakfast, lunch, dessert or tea at Tiffany’s.

 

Black Bass Crudo with radish, fennel, espelette and olive oil
 

Buzzing about the iconic 5th Avenue store, the 57th street cafe is akin to any other sought after movie-esque moment; idyllic in concept but just shy of expectation when dipped into reality. Approaching its two month mark, the liquor license is arriving any day now. Though superfluous, a glass of champagne or wine would round out the already picturesque moment

The prix fixe priced menu reads $29 for breakfast, $39 for lunch and $49 for Tiffany tea, all ranging in an assortment of tastes. Upon arrival guests are swiftly informed that each person must place an individual order. For an early meal the portions are suitable, yet for dinner they disappoint in size. The iconic Blue Box Celebration Cake goes for $36, comfortably serving four persons two fold, and promises to be the envy of Instagram.  Covered in Tiffany Blue icing and a white chocolate bow, it is as much an indulgence as it is a bragging right.

 

Fifth Avenue Salad of Maine lobster, avocado, grapefruit and poppy seed dressing
 

Walking distance from the likes of several Michelin-Starred restaurants, The Modern, Caviar Russe and Aquavit to name a few, this boxed jewel isn’t making any culinary headlines, nor does it need to. Rather, it is the feeling of being immersed in an emblematic elegance that only Tiffany can produce- Amazonite stone walls, plush armchairs, and purchasable china.

 

Already synonymous with quintessential New York, especially during the sparkling holiday season, Tiffany’s has reinvented itself as the place to dine among diamonds. Generations of past and present are sure to recognize the flagship stores latest endeavor as a Must Do Experience in the city of dreams.

 

Reservations are currently being taken on Resy 30 days in advance, at 9AM sharp. Seating times range from 10AM through the last seating at 7:30PM, dependent on the day.